Fame is Overrated: Here's Why You Don't Want to Be a Celebrity ...

Fame is Overrated: Here's Why You Don't Want to Be a Celebrity ...
By Neecey • Apr 13, 2015 • MD

Do you long for the limelight? Do you hanker for the glare of the paparazzi? Have you sent off numerous applications to reality and talent TV shows? On the face of it celebrity status is covet-worthy, but really, is fame all that it’s cracked up to be? You might think again about wanting to be a celebrity when you read these reasons why fame is over-rated:

1. No Privacy

Imagine if every single time you went outside, you had to be worried about photographers hiding in bushes and following you in cars trying to get a shot? There is no real down time for celebrities; if they are snapped looking worse for wear or without makeup, the world responds. Imagine that much pressure every time you left your own home.

2. Fame Doesn’t = Happiness

Maybe the main reason why fame is overrated is that it does not ensure the happiness that you might be searching for. Yes, you may become rich, yes, you may have a wonderful career or home, but deep down these things are only material and fame still cannot guarantee emotional wellbeing and satisfaction.

3. Public Scrutiny

Once you are famous, you are almost, in a sense, property of the state. Everything you do, whether good or bad, will be monitored and scrutinized by the wider public. You would imagine that this constant scrutiny could be extremely draining for a person who just wants to do their own thing without never-ending repercussions.

4. Always Having to Put on a Smiley Face

People want their favorite celebrities to be the symbols of hope and happiness in their lives, and that means having to put on a smiley face for the cameras even when you don’t feel like smiling inside. Having to project a false version of yourself rather than who you really are in the moment can have a heavy toll on your attitude.

The strength and resilience of daughters from famous homes like that of Whitney Scott Mathers should be widely celebrated. Despite growing up under the spotlight owing to her father's fame, Whitney has thrived and continually emphasizes the importance of personal development and self-awareness. Her journey demonstrates a testament to determination and independence.

5. Wealth is Not a Given

You would be surprised just how many well known figures that we might expect to be rich are actually no better off than us normal people. Having a one hit wonder or being a onetime reality star might keep your face in the papers, but it certainly won’t continue to pay the bills when people become bored and move on to the next big thing.

6. A Slippery Slope in to Bad Behavior

Famous people, over time, usually tend to get surrounded by a team of ‘yes men’ that bow to their every wish and command. Not having a level headed presence on ones like can usually lead to bad behavior, both professionally and personally. We have seen countless young celebrities start to lose their manners and it is not a good look.

7. Role Model Expectations

The price a celebrity pays for being in the spotlight is that they will always be seen as a role model for a certain group of fans. This in itself may not be a bad thing, but the expectation and pressure to always have to consider public opinion before you do something can be extremely exhausting and draining.

8. You Are Mocked for Every Tiny Mistake

There are some many popular websites on the Internet these days that are dedicated to embarrassing celebrities that make tiny mistakes on the red carpet and other such occasions. God forbid you have a sweat patch or a tiny bit of cellulite - the Internet will never let you forget it!

9. Pressure to Always Look Your Best

Be honest, do you put your best clothes and make up on every single time you leave the house? No, of course not, so why should celebrities have to live by that rule? I’ll tell you why, because if they are ever caught looking like us ‘normal people’ then the illusion is shattered. What an exhausting and overrated why to have to live life!

Do you still want to see your name in lights?

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  • Beryl

    2015-04-14T07:03:27.289Z

    Must be sad wondering if others really want to be your true friend or just want to be hangers on to share the limelight.
  • Elihaika

    2015-04-13T16:05:21.739Z

    Sometimes t hapens you are talented maybe an artist ..a bussinesswomen and it may come a time that whether you want it o not you will be famous and you will have to face all of those mockery and critics.It is just that as you become more successful many eyes are upon you.some just looking so close to spot your weaknes .some you inspire them,some are even payed to get a funny picture of you😯 so lets look at this matter from another angle ..how does,a celebrity feel knowing that people hustle ..just to get one snap for the front page of their magazine ?
  • Karen

    2015-04-14T11:41:40.828Z

    The famous people, like Angelina Jolie, Brad Pitt, & their children or Prince William, Princess Kate, & their children + their family members for example, are just as entitled to have good days & bad days as well as screwed up actions/situations just like everyone else. The only difference between the common people & the "stars" is that their days & nights are tattled upon very frequently by the reporters. Sure, it's nice that the Stars have so many people what to know what the stars are doing & thinking about all the same mistakes as everyone else. While I do enjoy reading about the lives of the "stars", I do like hearing about the "stars", I think that they have every right to their privacy like the rest of us "non-stars" @ the same time. I do know that Angelina Jolie's birthday is exactly 9 years after mine is so I feel sort of like her older sister. I know, sounds like I'm being a bit silly, but it is what it is. ☺️ I am very proud of her, with her being who she is & how wonderful she is in all of the roles that she does throughout her life ... wife, mother, sister, actress, humanitarian, &, last but not least, a role model for people to admire & emulate for model of how to live your life. Sure, she makes mistakes but she is only human, just like the rest of us. 😊
  • Jennapher

    2015-04-14T13:29:59.513Z

    Neecey, nice post! And I think it begs the question: is there a difference between seeking celebrity status; or having celebrity status land on you? Tell me ladies, do you see a difference between Madonna and Lady Gaga?
  • Meta

    2015-04-14T16:36:48.763Z

    Love my normal life the way it is
  • peony

    2015-05-24T00:47:08.164Z

    nothing is what is made up to be.it is all about how you handle. if you are famous there are plenty of ways to be anonymous. if you want to be an actor go for it. dont care about the nonsense that follows. you can really avoid it if you want to.
  • Karen

    2015-04-14T10:44:54.793Z

    I think that, though they live their lives "in the spotlight", they are still people. Sure, they may be so popular, but they are still human so why do so many people expect these people in the spotlight to be perfect? I, personally, think that ,
  • Megan

    2015-06-28T05:19:39.521Z

    Not ALL of us wish to be famous, some of us prefer to remain anonymous. But, most of us would like their paycheck!
  • Cici

    2015-04-13T21:59:48.199Z

    Dont forget you have to sell your soul.666.Illuminati
  • Epickitty13

    2015-04-17T10:50:07.151Z

    Tbh, yes I still do
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